Judge
Yesterday was talking with a friend about other people's relationship. How do we judge who is right and who is wrong when a relationship fails?
Must it be the guy who is always wrong because girls are generally known to be the weaker sex? I don't think it's that way now. Both are equal when it comes to hurting 1 another. haha. And I believe when a girl wanna be mean they can really be MEAN.
Most of the time we only hear 1 side of the story. That would be either the bf or the gf la. And since we know them personally and not the other party it would always seem that the person on the other side is the wrong 1.
I guess we should remain nonchalant about who is right and who is wrong and just lend a listening ear to your friend without being judgmental as the info might be wrong. You only heard it from 1 side. I've heard stories like 'chi muis' helping the poor gf call up the guy and demand an answer and all those. How sure can you be is always the guys fault?
Let's all sit on the fence and do nothing if the entire picture is not known.
posted by Jack at Wednesday, April 12, 2006
3 Comments:
i hate the way that when something fails it's usually someone else's fault and u obviously have no part to play in it. ppl are so quick to blame one another, and this is said almost too many times by too many ppl. you're just going to do this to lie to yourself to make you feel better.. selfish really.
who's right or wrong is always for someone to judge, but i dont really care for much opinion. sometimes people dont understand that indecisiveness can mean a whole range of possibilities. it may mean the heavy-heartedness of leaving someone, someone whom u still adore to great heights. and how it all ends is somewhere along the lines where u failed to attend to someone else's needs and u're being blame for it.
anyway, who said life was fair? if something's wrong, someone made it wrong, there's a victim, and someone's responsible and that person is on the loose, and nothing can be right. or can it?
wah..dun so geram ler! haha definately not right to judge others but sometimes you just cant help it. how many times in our lives can we really sit and think rationally? being humans with emotions....
MEN.....aihhhzzzz
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